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God is not against us creating our own choices. Though they may seem strange to your eye at times, if we learn to add God in our choices, we'll make wiser decisions. God can still and totally does marry whoever they want and allow individuals to create their own choices. As long as those who are currently making their own choices, without being led by the Spirit or His knowledge can take care of the consequences of their choices, then God has no problem letting them be. God sees a future that you and I don't. He's got an angle that you and I have never needed. He understands things you and I have never understood and may never know until the day we meet with Him.
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It's simply meant to get us to consider the assumptions that underlie our relationships and the" equity" of expecting a man to behave the exact same wonderful ways when wed as he did when we were courting. Why don't you keep as most male animals are forced to do, him courting forever? Here's another thought: the majority of animals strive to prove they are Useful in almost any way. Is it that this can be programmed into the DNA of a man? Bear in mind, they can't replicate unless they have proved themselves worthy. Possibly the only problem with guys not meeting our expectations would be that we have ceased holding them accountable.
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